Boyfriend’s mother has warning for girlfiend
DEAR HARRIETTE: I spend a lot of time at my boyfriend’s family home, and I’ve always felt comfortable there. I’ve known him and his siblings for years, so being around his family feels natural. Recently, while we were all spending time together, my boyfriend stepped away for a bit, and his mom pulled me aside in the kitchen. She told me how much she loves her son — but then added that he is lazy and that it will be his downfall. It felt less like casual conversation and more like a warning. I didn’t quite know how to respond, but her words stuck with me. I have noticed that he lacks urgency when it comes to his career, though I assumed he just needed time to figure things out. Now I’m questioning whether I’ve been overlooking something important. Am I ignoring signs that he may not be as motivated or mature as I need in a partner?
