Cousin wants to provide support after mom’s death

DEAR HARRIETTE: My closest cousin recently passed away due to her age. It was a big shock to the entire family. Growing up, she always made me feel welcomed on her side of the family, took time to show me around our city and even helped me move into college. She was more than just a cousin; she was a true friend and confidante. We often spoke about things she wouldn’t tell others, and I got to see a side of her that many people will never get to experience. She leaves behind a son who is a couple of years younger than me, and I know she would want me to provide guidance as much as I can. As his older cousin, I want to make sure I come across as relatable while still remaining trustworthy. How would you recommend I offer my help to my cousin (her son) in this time of need? — Cousin’s Love DEAR COUSIN’S LOVE: Take a page out of his mom’s book. Cultivate a consistent and loving relationship with your cousin.