Dad doesn’t approve of child’s job opportunity

DEAR HARRIETTE: I recently got into a heated argument with my dad, and it’s been bothering me ever since. The fight started when I told him I wanted to move to a different city for a job opportunity. He criticized my decision, saying I was being reckless and that I should stay closer to home where things are “safe” and familiar. I tried to explain why this move was important for my career and independence, but he kept bringing up past choices he didn’t agree with, like leaving my old job and choosing a career path he hadn’t expected. Before I knew it, I was yelling back, telling him that I need to make my own decisions and that his constant criticism feels controlling.