Woman conflicted about dating friends’ ex

DEAR HARRIETTE: There’s this guy I’ve been interested in for a while now. We have great chemistry, and every time we hang out, I find myself liking him more. The problem is, he’s already gone after three of my friends. Each time, he’s flirted with one of them or dated them briefly, and even though none of those relationships turned serious, it’s left me feeling conflicted. It makes me feel embarrassed and kind of foolish for still being interested in him, knowing he’s been involved with my friends.