Stingy boyfriend raises concerns

DEAR HARRIETTE: My boyfriend is incredibly stingy. We get along well in many ways, but when it comes to money, he’s not what I expected. He never offers to pay for our dates. It’s not that I mind splitting the bill sometimes, but I’ve noticed that he never makes any effort to treat me, even on special occasions. He’s also extremely reluctant to share anything. If we’re out to eat, he won’t offer me a sip of his drink or a bite of his meal, which feels selfish. I’m not the type to demand material things, but I do expect a certain level of generosity and a willingness to share in a relationship.